Many of my clients come to me feeling like they are living in the middle of a Cyclonic storm. So many issues going on at once and no way of coping with all of them effectively This can happen to the best of us and in the past, when it has happened to me, I have found that the only thing I could really control was myself. The great thing is, that when you are feeling in control, you see the problems at hand with fresh eyes and the solutions appear.
So, what am I talking about? I’m talking about being centred. Lets look at the definition of ‘being centred’ first, before we go into the whys and wherefores. To my thinking if you are centred, your personality and your spirit are sitting squarely in your body, you are nice and grounded and you are strongly connected to Source. When you are centred, you move your body from the core out. You do not tend to flail your arms about of move in a weird fashion. Being centred is physical feeling of inner strength aswell as a spiritual one.
The great thing about being centred is that people will feel more as ease with you. People who are un-centred, tend to come across as unbalanced and therefore people are less likely to want to give them time or assistance. Humans are very perceptive creatures and their instincts play a great part in their daily activities When someone who is centred walks into the room, they exude a posture of self confidence which attracts the attention of all who are there. They do not even have to try, people will naturally gravitate to them and will want to do business or be friendly with them. This is why people who are well grounded and centred gain more in life.
So, how can you get centred and quickly?
Try this exercise,
In a quiet room stand in a space that has plenty of room for you to swing your arms around. Take 3 deep breaths, drawing your arms up and over your body as you do so.
Now, take your minds eye to your spinal chord. Feel it if necessary with your hand, just to get it in your mind. Your spine contains within it your central nervous system and therefore it is the power station of your body. Imagine that your central nervous system looks like a luminous shaft of white light, or electricity.
That shaft of light is your own tool for grounding yourself, so imagine it expanding downwards and exiting from your Coccyx and into the centre of the Earth. See it wrap around the core of The Earth 3 times and then see it shoot back up through your body and out of the crown of your head. Like a white laser beam, see it shoot up into the sky, out of the atmosphere and into the Sun. See it wrap itself around the core of The Sun 3 times and come back into your body. Now your central nervous system is grounded and charged by The Source of All that Is, or you may call it God.
Feel the energy of The Sun and The Earth within you. Feel the strength you have now that you are ‘plugged in’ to the Source. Now, cast your minds eye into your heart. There will will see a sacred place, only for you to know. For some it is a tree by a stream, others it’s a cave and some others may see a rainbow and a lake. It doesn’t matter what you see, just see your sacred place that resides within your heart.
In the sacred place there will be a box. It is Pandora’s Box, but it is empty and the lid is open. You have the key in the palm of your hand. Let your mind be filled with all your hurts and insecurities and the pain from the past and the fear in the present and when you are ready, pour it all into the box. Don’t worry, they cannot come out unless you call them. Those feelings are trapped in there now. When you have poured your hurts and fears into your own Pandora’s Box, close it and lock it with the key. Place the box in a tree hollow or in a cave or wherever feels best to you within your sacred place. When ever any new fears or hurts come up, go back into your sacred place and open the box and pour them inside. Some people like to visualise these negative feelings to look like flys or mosquitoes, others have seen intestinal worms. Think of a parasite that you dislike and use that image to represent your negative feelings, when you pour them into the box.
When you are done, bring your minds eye to the centre of your forehead. This is your Third Eye and it is this eye from which you can perceive your future. Look through your own inner oracle and see your future to be bright, see your present day to be fruitful and positive. See that people respond to you in a more positive way. See that you are welcome. See that you are safe, and above all, see and feel that you are self confident.
Still looking through your third eye, I want you to imagine a giant oyster shell, it is open and the inside is an amazing Mother of Pearl colour. Within the shell is a perfect Pearl. This is your pearl of wisdom. It resides within your mind. It sees truth, reason and love. Go to the shell and touch the pearl. Upon touching the pearl, be reminded of all the achievements you have made in your life time. No matter how big or small they have been, no matter who acknowledged them or not, see each and every one of those achievements as you touch the pearl.
Let the achievements be like your favourite drink, and see them fill up a glass before you. Drink of your successes. The glass is never empty, as each and every day you have made an achievement Drink and drink the achievements in until your body is filled up from your feet to your head with the feeling of success.
You can visit your pearl of wisdom any time Go to it whenever you need guidance and wisdom in your life. Your inner truth is a very powerful friend.
Now be aware of your body again. Look at your feet and your hands, be fascinated by them, like a 2 month old baby. Go to the mirror and see the beauty in your face. Look at your body as a powerful body. See it is strong and intelligent in its own right.
Now, stamp your feet and rub your belly and say ‘I’
then rub your hands together vigorously and say ‘Feel’
then do a big star jump and say ‘Great!’
Do this 3 times, or more if you are having fun.
When you are done, feel strong, feel powerful and feel centred.
If you need a re-fresher, just remember to ground yourself in The Earth and in The Sun and go to your sacred place within your heart and then to your Peal of Wisdom in your mind. You will notice that your mind begins to quieten down the more you talk yourself through the exercises and you will begin to glow with self confidence and with centredness.
Being centred is a matter of re-connecting the heart, mind and body with the Soul. You have done this via this exercises
Enjoy the happy consequences of your centred spirit!